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| « Re: got engaged (Hussain) | 4:59 PM 2/5/2010 |
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wow congrats...hopefully you get... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TixGsvtjw8U Birthday ...
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| « Re: got engaged (chow) | 5:03 PM 2/5/2010 |
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lol hopefully
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| « Re: got engaged (Hussain) | 2:42 AM 2/6/2010 |
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Congrats, we should have an Alti meet at your engagement party 
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| « Re: got engaged (Hussain) | 5:24 AM 2/6/2010 |
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My parents are old school also. I have to ask her parents to take their daughters hand in marriage. Seems like a long process cause what if they say no ? lolBut Congrats! Marriage is huge step. Now she has to take care of your a** for the rest of her life lol jk
 
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| « Re: got engaged (trayharrell951) | 6:08 AM 2/6/2010 |
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Congrats man
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| « Re: got engaged (Hussain) | 7:44 AM 2/6/2010 |
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congratz dude! wonderful news. i hope that everything works out for you.| Quote, originally posted by Rob.Vegan » | | Congrats, we should have an Alti meet at your engagement party |
count me in hahaha
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| « Re: got engaged (big_rig) | 9:46 AM 2/6/2010 |
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congrats Bro, great to hear happy stuff like this!!!hope everything goes well!!!!! 
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thank you everyone... about the meet at the engagement party, lol trust me you wouldnt want to be there. stuff like this always sucks for Libyan men. Arab men from other countries got it good but not Libyans. it's separated, women in one room and men in another. women got the music blasting and dancing and having a good time... men have a sheikh (muslim version of a pastor or rabi) lecture to us the whole time about how we need to treat our wife good and blah blah blah lol
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| « Re: got engaged (Hussain) | 11:52 AM 2/6/2010 |
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wow man arent u like just out of high school.....i mean congrats but i dont wanna be amrried just yet lol..........weel goodluck n i hope it all works out
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| « Re: got engaged (PhEnoM78) | 11:56 AM 2/6/2010 |
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lol no, I turn 22 in a few months. dating goes against our religion so if we're Islamicly married it gives us the freedom to do what ever and not have to worry about someone that knows our families seeing us (very big Muslim community here in Sacramento).
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| « Re: got engaged (Hussain) | 8:01 PM 2/6/2010 |
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congratulation man, hope all goes well and that you guys have a great life together
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| « Re: got engaged (b88dragon) | 9:13 PM 2/6/2010 |
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thank you
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| « Re: got engaged (Hussain) | 10:19 PM 2/6/2010 |
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Congrats bro. Really happy for you
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| « Re: got engaged (Hussain) | 10:35 PM 2/6/2010 |
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| Quote, originally posted by Hussain » | | lol no, I turn 22 in a few months. dating goes against our religion so if we're Islamicly married it gives us the freedom to do what ever and not have to worry about someone that knows our families seeing us (very big Muslim community here in Sacramento). |
"dating goes against our religion" wth, doesn't say that in the coran lol. dating maybe goes agains't your culture/dogmas but certainly not islam! well, depends on your meaning of dating 
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| « Re: got engaged (mcheddadi) | 11:07 AM 2/7/2010 |
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well men and women are suppose to be separated so its sort of hard to date lol
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| « Re: got engaged (Hussain) | 11:33 AM 2/7/2010 |
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| Quote, originally posted by Hussain » | | well men and women are suppose to be separated so its sort of hard to date lol |
hey I can understand that you guys do that, but don't say that its the islam religions that dictates that. Uninformed people will think that all muslim do this lol.
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| « Re: got engaged (Rob.Vegan) | 12:49 PM 2/7/2010 |
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| Quote, originally posted by Rob.Vegan » | | we should have an Alti meet at your engagement party |
im down lol
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anyhow, congrats man! forgot to tell you this! lol
finding the girl of your dream is an accomplishment worth celebrating! can't wait for the pics!
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Does this mean that you are a 22 year old virgin?lol sorry Congrats man
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| « Re: FN-QR (dldjros69) | 3:42 PM 2/7/2010 |
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| Quote, originally posted by dldjros69 » | | Does this mean that you are a 22 year old virgin? lol sorry Congrats man |
LOL, I was thinking the same thing but didn't want to say it. Congrats! 22 is way to early for me to even think about marriage lol.
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| « Re: got engaged (Rob.Vegan) | 4:13 PM 2/7/2010 |
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| Quote, originally posted by Rob.Vegan » | | Congrats, we should have an Alti meet at your engagement party |
I'm down.Congrats btw!
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| « Re: FN-QR (mcheddadi) | 5:05 PM 2/7/2010 |
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I asked some people and they said that it says in the Hadith that "If a man and a woman are alone then the 3rd person is Satan". so a man and woman are not supposed to be alone together unless the man is the woman's husband, brother, father, or son. So it's sort of hard to date without every really being alone together. which is why ppl say it goes against Islam. The woman is not supposed to even show herself unless the man is her husband, brother, father, or son. and when I say show herself, to most people that means her hair and any skin more then hands and face. some people interpreted it as the woman must also cover her face and everything (my family does not believe in that) but it DOES say in the Quran that the woman must cover herself. If the woman isn't practicing her religion and doesn't cover then that's one thing but if she is practicing then she NEEDS to at least cover her hair and wear long sleeve shirts and pants or dresses (no shorts or skirts).
lol about the virgin part, i'm not going to say if I am or not.
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| « Re: FN-QR (Hussain) | 5:27 PM 2/7/2010 |
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| Quote, originally posted by Hussain » | | lol about the virgin part, i'm not going to say if I am or not. |
Its ok man atleast you have an altima coupe oh and lol to the satan part. hehe
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| « Re: FN-QR (dldjros69) | 5:46 PM 2/7/2010 |
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lol ya
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| « Re: FN-QR (Hussain) | 6:04 PM 2/7/2010 |
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| Quote, originally posted by Hussain » | | I asked some people and they said that it says in the Hadith that "If a man and a woman are alone then the 3rd person is Satan". so a man and woman are not supposed to be alone together unless the man is the woman's husband, brother, father, or son. So it's sort of hard to date without every really being alone together. which is why ppl say it goes against Islam. The woman is not supposed to even show herself unless the man is her husband, brother, father, or son. and when I say show herself, to most people that means her hair and any skin more then hands and face. some people interpreted it as the woman must also cover her face and everything (my family does not believe in that) but it DOES say in the Quran that the woman must cover herself. If the woman isn't practicing her religion and doesn't cover then that's one thing but if she is practicing then she NEEDS to at least cover her hair and wear long sleeve shirts and pants or dresses (no shorts or skirts).
lol about the virgin part, i'm not going to say if I am or not.
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I don't take in consideration the Hadith. to me the only words from god are in the coran. the other texts are interpretation imo. and it doesn't say that women should cover themselves. it says as advices that if women don't want to me harassed by misonigistic pigs that they can cover themself to not attract unwanted attention. and those words apply to the situation and the time when it was written meaning hot desert places where people already covered themselves up because of the sun, and places where we didn't have police or security and that you where better off hiding than being pwned by stronger peoples. but anyhow, the way people live their religion is up to them, as long as it is done in the respect of others and oneself. but whatever hussain, where not going to start discussion religion as it is a complete and utter waste of time. religion is based on faith which itself isn't even rational or debatable. lol 
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Yeah reallythis is bordering on a political discussion and i am having an extremely hard time not being an @ss. Nothing against anybody and i didnt wanna ruin the thread!
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| « Re: FN-QR (mcheddadi) | 7:43 PM 2/7/2010 |
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lol ya. I usually dont like to talk about religion or politics because in the end, you usually don't change the other persons view and it just starts an argument and sometimes peoples feelings get hurt.
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| « Re: FN-QR (Hussain) | 8:23 PM 2/7/2010 |
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so you are a virgin ahahaha jk man
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| « Re: FN-QR (sickkwidit) | 8:52 PM 2/7/2010 |
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Ya so mean lolIn some religions premartital sex can get you exiled lmao. Can we at your wedding?
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Congrats man!
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| « Re: (SHIFT_COUPE) | 2:13 PM 2/8/2010 |
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thanks.sorry, can't have an altima coupe meet at the engagement or wedding... my family is very old school Arab traditional and would kill me (not literally lol)
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| « Re: (Hussain) | 2:21 PM 2/8/2010 |
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| Quote, originally posted by Hussain » | | thanks. sorry, can't have an altima coupe meet at the engagement or wedding... my family is very old school Arab traditional and would kill me (not literally lol) |
lol you know it would be awesome to have 10 a/c's with just married on the back window, dragging cans and escorting you to the airport for your honeymoon haha
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| « Re: (big_rig) | 4:04 PM 2/8/2010 |
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Congrats man!
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| « Re: (Hussain) | 6:51 PM 2/8/2010 |
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| Quote, originally posted by Hussain » | | thanks. sorry, can't have an altima coupe meet at the engagement or wedding... my family is very old school Arab traditional and would kill me (not literally lol) |
I just curious, I have a friend that is Muslim and his parents arranged the women he is set to marry. Now you said that the women you are engaged to you have been "talking" to her so how does that really work? I'm not trying to be disrespectful, just curious.
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| « Re: (sammyboy) | 7:15 PM 2/8/2010 |
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in Islam you technically can not do arranged marriages. the woman has the right to say no to any man. when my sister was at the mosque getting Islamicly married, the shiekh repeatedly asked her if she wanted to marry him, if she was being forced to say yes, that she did not have to if she did not want to. so TECHNICALLY arranged marriages go against Islam BUT the parents could pressure the girl into saying yes and with lots of pressure, most people will just give in. arranged marriage is a cultural thing thats been around before Islam and many cultures have just continued the tradition. The proper way is that the man comes to engage the girl and if her parents and her agree, then they can get married..... The same goes for a man. they TECHNICALLY can not do an arrange marriage or force him to marry anyone he does not want to. but often times parents will give a lot of pressure and the man or woman give in... with my fiance, our families are very close and we've known each other for a long time and go to school together. at school we talk and visit and everything. so I went to engage her with my family and her family and her approved of me.
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| « Re: (Hussain) | 7:33 PM 2/8/2010 |
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Ah I see I see. Thanks for explaining that lol. She going to med school too?
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| « Re: (sammyboy) | 8:50 PM 2/8/2010 |
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thats our goal. a local med school only accepts 10%.... 100 out of 1,000. so if we dont get into med school then we might look into pharmaceutical school because its supposed to be much easier to get into and pay almost the same.
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| « Re: (Hussain) | 9:04 PM 2/8/2010 |
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| Quote, originally posted by Hussain » | | sorry, can't have an altima coupe meet at the engagement or wedding... |
 
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. I am now engaged to a wonderful woman who I've been "talking to" for the past couple years. My family is very... old school Arab traditional (even though my mom is white/American). So the other day my family asked her family for her hand in marriage. Her family agreed and asked for her approval and obviously she approved lol so now we're technically engaged. Sunday me and my family are going to her house to talk about some of the specifics and probably in about a month there will be an engagement party (Arab tradition) and at that time I will give her a ring and we will get Islamicly married and possibly legally married at the same time. we wont have an actual wedding for a couple years (till we get our bachelors degrees). so I'm still not sure if we will be legally married from the engagement party or the day of the wedding.... 